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Week 7: Getting Fit

Have been a bit lax at updating this recently, sorry. Things are still going well, I haven’t seen any dramatic weight loss or anything like that but I’m starting to really appreciate that it’s not just about that. Sure, I do need to lose weight but I’m feeling so much fitter and am really enjoying the sessions. I’m noticing a lot of the exercises are easier now: the plank that I could only manage 15 seconds of in the first week can now be held for a minute and a half – woo! My clothes feel looser too so I think it must be doing something and I have lost a couple of pounds, so it’s going in the right direction. I need to get better at being good with food to really benefit from the sessions as recently we’ve been a bit naughty, especially with half term and my husband being home – lots of meals out etc.

I never thought I would say it but I actually really look forward to the sessions – Zoe keeps them fresh and fun, and they get a bit harder each week, though never so hard you feel like you’re failing. Gentle encouragement is good for someone like me who needs a push but baulks somewhat at being told what to do. I’m even starting to consider joining in with some other classes too as I enjoy the sessions so much, and really do feel very invigorated and good after doing them. This is a whole new world for me!

For more information about Zoë and what she does, check out her website Fitbugs.net or come and ask her a question in the Ask the Trainer section of the forum

Getting Fit: Week 1

Well, I’m still alive. Just.

I had my first training session with Zoe yesterday and it was actually a lot of fun! Hard work but fun, and in all seriousness I actually feel pretty good. I’m a little stiff and sore, but I feel like my whole body has done some good, hard work.

The session was an hour long and it felt like we managed to fit so much in, it was infinitely better than trying to do a DVD or something at home, which is what I’ve done in the past. I’m a little too self-conscious of my general unfitness, lack of ability and co-ordination to attempt a class yet (plus I don’t really have the time), and the one-on-one attention was just perfect for me. I was worried I might feel a little silly but I didn’t at all (well, maybe once or twice).

We started out using a Bosu ball, which is something I’ve never used before. It was like a halved squidgy exercise ball, something last used by me when trying to get labour going with my daughter! Zoe had me stand on it and get balanced, which is easier said than done at first, then when I’d managed that (with only one ridiculous nearly-fall), started me moving my heels up and down – it sounds simple but because the ball is rather like a giant jelly, you can really feel it on the legs.

After that was one of my favourite parts of the session – putting on boxing gloves and punching things – yay! Okay, well, punching pads, but it was still fun. I’m honestly not a violent person, but I do like hitting things. Is that bad? I also quite liked using the kettlebell – it was hard work but I think I’m more of a fan of simple, strong, rhythmic exercises than anything that involves any real flair.

I found having Zoe there, with her know-how and encouragment made me work a lot harder than I would do if it was just me. Even something fairly simple like using a resistance band became a better exercise than I could do on my own – she was able to correct any mistakes I didn’t know I was making, push me that but further than I might normally go, but also keep it within a level that is attainable by me, thus avoiding me feeling like I was failing. She’s encouraging in a nice, honest-sounding way not in a clapping and jumping ‘woo, go you’ sense, which would probably drive me mad.

We also did various stretches and talked a lot about how I felt about each exercise, before moving on to the part I was dreading: core exercises. Since my first pregnancy, my stomach muscles are dreadfully weak and I find core exercises really hard. We tried a fairly simple (and I imagine easy for most) plank, and I did really struggle – it was probably the hardest part of the session for me, but by doing it in shorter intervals I managed a minute or so. Probably doesn’t sound like much, but it was a lot for me.

Following a good stretch (so much nicer when someone else is stretching you and pushing you that bit further than you could do yourself!) we finished for the day and I did feel pretty shattered, though half an hour later I walked to collect my son from school and really did feel good. I also talked endlessly to anyone who would listen about it too, which I think must be a good sign!

Now I’m looking forward to next Wednesday (no session on Monday because of the bank holiday) and feeling more motivated than I have in a long time. I even skipped having a glass of wine last night despite a dreadful bedtime strop from my son. I did have a curry though… but it had lentils in it, which is good, right? Right? Ah well, one step at a time!

 

For more information about Zoë and what she does, check out her website Fitbugs.net or come and ask her a question in the Ask the Trainer section of the forum

Getting Fit: The Beginning!

Well, sort of the beginning. I could do with losing some weight. A fair bit really. Since the beginning of this year I’ve been trying to get fitter and shed some pounds and have been doing okay – I lost a stone by mid-March and was pretty proud of myself but have sort of  plateaued since then. My regime isn’t too, well, regimented really. I walk quite a bit every day doing the school run – between 3 and 5 miles, and often 7 or 8 on Tuesdays, and I’ve been trying to cut down on portion sizes, snacks and sweets. I’ve also been trying to add healthier meals in during the week then giving myself the weekend off.

It was working well but when I hit a stone, I just started to lose motivation. I considered joining a gym but really don’t have the time as I normally have my daughter with me. She goes to nursery three mornings a week, but on Mondays I help out at my son’s school and on Wednesdays and Fridays I work. My husband doesn’t get home until 7.30-8 most nights and I just don’t feel like driving over to a gym at that time of night. Well, certainly not enough to make the cost of membership worthwhile. Also, I do actually want to spend some time with him and generally get some work done in the evening hours too. With exercise at home, I could squeeze it in, but have been finding I just don’t feel like it. As the exercise slipped, so did the eating habits, and while I haven’t put any of it back on, I’ve been eating a bit too much cake and some rather large portions of pasta recently. Basically, I need a kick up the backside.

So, hopefully this is where the lovely Zoë Randall will come in. Zoë is a personal trainer, ante/post-natal/group exercise instructor/running group leader and sports massage therapist, so basically she wears a lot of very healthy hats. She focuses on positive change rather than extreme exercise and dieting, which sounds great to me as the word diet sends me running for the closest cheese mountain (what do you mean they don’t exist?). Hopefully she will be able to help me get back on track, and beyond, with twice-weekly training sessions, and I plan to detail it all for anyone who is interested in reading.

Today we started off with a very low-impact consultation. I was afraid it might involved being weighed but thankfully not. Instead it was a very informal chat about lifestyle, changes I could make myself, what I hope to get out of the sessions etc. It was actually really helpful to sit down and discuss everything honestly, the good and the bad, and I realised that I had actually been doing quite well, I just needed the motivation to get back on track. Zoë is extremely friendly and easy to chat to (and we discovered we share a birthday – yay!) and clearly knows her stuff. She is also very enthusiastic,but not in an annoying cheerleader way, you just get the feeling that she takes a lot of pride in her work and genuinely wants to help people feel better about themselves.

We start our first proper session on Monday and whilst I’m quite nervous about what it will entail, I’m also feeling really optimistic about it all, and am actually looking forward to it! I’m sure this time next week I will be eating my words (served on a bed of lentils, of course).

 

For more information about Zoë and what she does, check out her website Fitbugs.net